While your roles and expectations will differ, maintaining a shared and fair partnership in the work and responsibilities of family life is vital to shared romantic feelings. In most homes this week before Christmas can be one of the most hectic of the year

This week’s TIP:

Take up some of her slack each day this week:

- Notice one extra thing you can do today, so she won't have to. ("Noticing" is a turn on)

- Ask her what you can do that will help the most!

- Offer extra praise for what she is contributing to make your family Christmas experience more fun and rewarding.

- Secretly coach your child to do something extra to help mom this week. (They have extra time on their hands because school is out.)

- Don't forget to hang some mistletoe and regularly get caught each night kissing "Mrs. Clause".